Destiny..8

I have been asked this question several times and until now, I find it difficult to answer with either just a YES or a NO.

"Do you believe in destiny?" It's a close-ended interrogative yet when you have chosen to answer with a yes or a no, you can't help yourself but elaborate trying to justify your answer.

Well, I guess...Destiny is another word for not having a choice. Don't you think so?!..8

 

Brain Teaser..8

Any idea what that is?! Well, it's made of wires connected to each other with a small ring attached to it. The goal is to remove the ring from the chains of wires without breaking it or dismantling it.

I was given this puzzle the past two months and it took me some time to figure it out. You may then try it. A good exercise for the brain..8

Happiness Where?! =)

It's been a while since I have last written something on just about anything. I can still remember a note which I have posted before. It was titled "20 Ways To Be Truly Happy."

Listed at number ten (10), it is something that most of us don't even consider to be very useful or effective. Most people find it normal or natural to talk about something (gossiping), to talk about people or one specific person (gossiping), to make comments or to state an opinion. Little do they know that most of the time, we all need just one simple word - SILENCE.

SILENCE - often misinterpreted, never misquoted. This is just one of the very few things I truly believe in. This is one of the very few things I try to practice faithfully. Not that I am scared to speak up or to voice out what's inside my mind or my heart. It is just that, I have proven it to be solemn, tranquil.

When we speak, we use words. We say them out loud. Others just whisper. Whether it be loud or soft, we say words with feelings, with emotions, with meanings and with motives. And may I say, negative motives.

Words are very very powerful. They can cause serious damage to any individual. They can make or break a person. I personally would rather be hurt physically than be hurt emotionally through words. Physical pain can last for just a couple of days or a month max but emotional pain caused by words one has spoken or thrown out at someone can never be taken back. It is easy to say "sorry" but still, sorry is not going to cut it. Therefore, be careful with words.

Point is, if we don't have anything nice to say, better keep our mouths shut.

#10. Remember that silence sometimes is the best answer.

You may try it and discover that HAPPINESS also dwells in SILENCE..8


P.S. I love my silence and I'll continue to embrace it with all my heart. 

The First Kind of Heartbreak

I wrote to you before so you could love me, and so forgive me but I'm writing once more

until I run out of words that would fit the meaning and even the sound of your name

Forgive for I'm writing so you could forgive me

Because once I was told that a person who doesn't know how to write will never be forgiven (same with not being able to forgive if he cannot write)

So my love, forgive me this time once more

For the very last time, I'm writing a poem for you

Starting with a promise that I will forgive you and you will forgive me too

Forgive me for not calming down and I'll forgive you for not shedding a tear

Forgive me for not staying in silence and I'll forgive you for not speaking up

Forgive me for not leaving and I'll forgive you for not staying

Forgive me if I can't seem to forget you and I'll forgive you if you can't make yourself to choose me

My love, let's make a pact, I'll forgive you but you have to forgive me too

Please forgive me for not letting go and I'll forgive you for not holding on

Forgive me for not walking away and I'll forgive you for not coming in closer

Forgive me for not giving up and I'll forgive you for not taking a risk

Forgive me for not hating you and I'll forgive you for not loving me

My love, let's make this pact, I'll forgive you but you have to forgive me too

So that finally, I can finish this poem up that has long been overdue

Forgive me if it's taking too long 

Forgive me if it has too many unsaid words

But I promise you, this will be the last, this is the last, it is the last.

I will start all over again and go back to the very first moment you smiled at me and ask how I was doing

I will start all over again and go back to the very first moment you smiled at me

I will start all over again and go back

I will start 

I will...

 This will be the last poem I'll ever write you

nope...scrap that

This will be the very last poem I will write about you

I love you so much and there's nothing left of me.

I'm done..

10 Things I Hate About You (Own Version)

I hate the way you treat me And the way you talk to me
I hate the thought that you're so far I hate it when you seem so free
I hate your bloody red nail polish And the way you kiss my arm
I hate you so much it makes me sick That it even makes me smile
I hate the way you're always tough I hate it when you're cold
I hate it when you make me laugh Even worse when you make me a fool
I hate the way you block me on facebook And the fact that you don't have time
But mostly, I hate the way I don't hate you Not even close Not even a little bit Not even at all

For this someone whom I used to know so well...8

Quotes for the Heart-Broken

I guess I am one and hoping to get out of it soon. Really really soon. I am not in a hurry though. I will give myself some time to recover and enjoy every moment of misery and promises of forever.

"How happy you are isn't determined by how many things you have, but how thankful you are for the things you have."

"Love knows no reasons. Love knows no lies. Love defies all reasons. Love has no eyes. But love isn't blind. Love sees all but doesn't mind."

"The one who has seen all your weaknesses but still thinks that you're the best thing that ever happened to him/her is the one worth loving."

"If you can't get someone off your mind, maybe they're supposed to be there. Remember, the mind can recognize what the heart is trying to deny."

"True lovers aren't the ones who desperately change each other, but the ones who successfully grow up together."

"Words are the language of the mind. Tears are the language of the heart. And silence is the language of the soul."

"People fall in love not knowing why or how. It's a very special feeling that doesn't require any answer. You just love no matter how stupid you become."

"You want and you get it - it's luck. You want and you wait - it's time. You want but you compromise - it's life. You want, you wait and you don't compromise - it's success!"

"You can never know the future; you do the best you can in the present by learning from the past."

"Say good words about others. You do not know when it will comeback to you."

God doesn't give the things we want, but the things we need. God doesn't give the people we want, but the people we need. Have faith."

" The best relationships are the ones with people who enter your life by accident but stays on purpose. "

" Sometimes, no matter how much faith you have, you lose people. But you never forget them and it's those memories that give you the strength to move on."

"If you love someone, you will be willing to give up everything for him/her. But if they love you, they will never ask you to."

"Don't look at your pasr relationships as failures but rather, as opportunities to learn and improve your relationship skill."

"Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours."

" Don't be afraid to love. For in loving comes the strength to fight for what you believe is fair."

"Sometimes it takes sadness to know happiness, noise to appreiate silence and absence to value presence."

"It's painful to say goodbye to someone you don't wan to let go but more painful to ask someone to stay when you know they want to leave."

"The right one would never think that he/she is too good for you or you're too good for him/her. The right one thinks you're good for eacht other."

"The only people you need in your life are the ones who need you in theirs. Never make someone a priority if he/she makes you only an option."

"It's tough when someone special starts to ignore you but it's even tougher when you have to pretend that you don't mind."

"Real loss occurs when you lose something taht you love more than yourself."

"The onyl reason people hold on to memories so tight is because, memories are the only things that don't change when everything else does."

"Don't leave so much room in your future foe someone who just left you on the past."

"There is always someone for everybody. Just because you don't meet them right away doesn't mean you never will."

"No one can ever promise you they'll never hurt you because at one time or another, it will happen. The real promise is if the time you spent together will be worth all the pain in the end."

:(

Boomerang

This I think is the perfect song that would describe my situation in life particularly - matters of the heart. And this is according to a good friend too. Relate with me if you want. Here's BOOMERANG by PLAIN WHITE T's from the album WONDERS OF THE YOUNGER..


The fire was out
But then the phone rang.
And all of the heat came back again.
As much as I try
You're hard to resist
All that it takes is just one kiss

And I'm putty in your hands
I'm under your spell
You send me spinning

You pull me in close,You throw me away
I keep coming back like a boomerang.
You tell me to go,You beg me to stay.
I keep coming back like a boomerang
Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again.

You're treating me like I'm your little toy
You tell me I'm not like other boys.
The next thing I know you toss me aside
You don't even bother with "Goodbye"s.

But when you say, "Hello"...I can't ignore you
You send me spinning.

You pull me in close, You throw me away
I keep coming back like a boomerang.
You tell me to go, You beg me to stay.
I keep coming back like a boomerang

Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again
Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again.

Boom,Boom,Boom
And now my heart is racing
Boom,Boom,Boom
And after you I'm chasing
Boom,Boom,Boom
You got to catch me when i fall.
You send me spinning

You pull me in close,You throw me away
I keep coming back like a boomerang.
You tell me to go,You beg me to stay.
I keep coming back like a boomerang

Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again.
Around, around, around and back again.

Realization

I thought you're different - different good. But I was wrong, really wrong. Not everybody can be who they say they are. Mere lip service. The most painful about it all, is the individual whom I trusted with all my heart so much that's involved. I really need to take this out of my chest..and still not enough..I am hurt..8